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Ask Amy: I fell hard for this man, and now I’m scared

Dear Amy: I ended a long and terrible marriage with an addict a couple of years ago.

The marriage was over for a long time but because of debt and the pandemic, it took us a lot longer than I wanted for the marriage to finally be done. By the end, it was like a prison sentence.

Throughout that process and for a couple of years after, I spent time working on being a stronger, independent person — both for myself and for my daughters.

Recently I started trying to date again. I met a few very nice men, but I didn’t really connect. I was sure that I was good and happy being single.

But then I met a man who really got to me. We’ve been seeing each other for about a month. Now I’m smitten.

My problem now is that I’m so attracted to him and so scared of being hurt that I just want to break up before that happens.

I know he likes me too, but I don’t think he likes me as much as I do him.

It’s a very scary place to be.

I have a therapist who advises me to just have fun, but I’m getting more and more scared as time goes on, and I just want to run and hide.

I’m too old for this silliness! Please help me to see this more clearly.


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